Adoption is an important matter, and makes a change in a child’s life that will last a lifetime. It is for that reason the focus of in-family adoption is on the child’s needs; not just for now, but also looking ahead to his or her future. The courts will only make an adoption order if they are satisfied that this is the only way that the child’s needs an be met. There is information below on some alternatives to adoption.
There are a number of reasons why people may consider adopting a child who already lives with them:
Applicants do not have to be married, but evidence is needed of a long-term stable relationship, where both parties have been parenting the child together for a significant period of time, usually at least two years. We would not normally make a recommendation to the court for an adoption order to be made on a child under five years old. This is because the child needs to be old enough to have some understanding of adoption, and to be able to express their wishes and feelings.
This would include for example grandparents, aunts or uncles. Usually the child would need to have been living with you for at least 3 years before an application can be made to adopt.
Again the child would need to have been living with you for at least three years.
Same sex parents
In some circumstances it may be appropriate for a same sex parent to adopt a child conceived via surrogacy or sperm donation.
Parents who have adopted a child in another country
Some legal adoptions made in other countries (who have not signed up to the Hague Convention) are not recognized in England, and therefore an application to adopt is needed to the English courts if the child comes to live in the country.
Foster carers wishing to adopt a child in their care need to speak to their social worker and the child’s social worker.
The court expects to have the views of all birth parents, in almost all adoption proceedings. If at all possible birth parents will therefore be interviewed in all cases, whether or not they have parental responsibility.
Applications with a foreign element
Is the child in the UK and is the child’s parent in the UK? If the parent and child are in the UK, the process is a little easier.
Relatives (other than parents) will need a home study to adopt.
Nationality and immigration issues are often very complex, and legal advice will be needed.
Alternatives to in-family adoption
- Change of name by deed poll
- Parental responsibility agreement drawn up by a solicitor
- An application can be made to court for a special guardianship order, or child arrangements order, both of which could extend parental responsibility to another person or people, without ending the birth parents’ parental responsibility
- If you are considering any of these options we would recommend that you seek independent legal advice