Help following sexual abuse
Rape and sexual abuse is common in abusive relationships.
Sexual abuse is any action that pressures or coerces someone to do something sexually they don’t want to do. It can also refer to behaviour such as restricting access to birth control and condoms.
It is important to know that just because you “didn’t say no,” it doesn’t mean that you meant “yes.” When you do not resist an unwanted sexual advance, it does not mean that you consented. Some think that if you didn’t resist, that it doesn’t count as abuse. That’s not true. It’s still is. Whether you were intoxicated or felt pressured, intimidated or obligated to act a certain way, it’s not your fault.
Some examples of sexual assault and abuse are:
- Unwanted kissing or touching
- Unwanted rough or violent sexual activity
- Rape or attempted rape
- Refusing to use condoms or restricting someone’s access to birth control
- Keeping someone from protecting themselves from sexually transmitted infections (STIs)
- Sexual contact with someone who is very drunk, drugged, unconscious or otherwise unable to give a clear and informed “yes” or “no”
- Threatening someone into unwanted sexual activity
- Pressuring or forcing someone to have sex or perform sexual acts
- Using sexual insults toward someone
- Sexual activity with someone who is not old enough to/does not have the capacity to consent
The Harbour Centre
The Harbour Centre is a Sexual Assault Referral Centre (SARC) in Norfolk and provides a one-stop location, offering medical care and emotional support to victims of rape and serious sexual assault whether they are male, female, adults or children.
In addition to offering the SARC service, the Harbour Centre also provides a 24 hour helpline manned by specially trained Crisis Workers and follow on support from Independent Sexual Violence Advisors (ISVAs) and Child Advocates.
Sue Lambert Trust
Support for male and female survivors of sexual abuse in Norfolk whenever it occurred - counselling and telephone support. Centres in Norwich and Great Yarmouth
Telephone and face to face support. Norfolk wide.
0808 802 9999
National organisation supporting for women