Support for male victims
Most domestic violence is directed at women but men are abused too, in both heterosexual and same sex relationships.
Seeking help as an abused man could be difficult. You may feel there’s nowhere to turn or that no-one will take you seriously.
Perhaps you’re ashamed about what is happening or feel like you have done something to deserve it.
You may be worried that people will think you are less of a man for ‘allowing’ yourself to be abused.
No-one deserves to be abused by the person they love. You have the right to be respected and live in safety.
- You are not alone – many men experience abuse
- The abuse isn’t your fault
- There are services that can help you
- You can’t change your partner’s behaviour
- Domestic abuse is against the law
Know your rights
- You have the same rights as women
- The police will take you seriously and arrest your abuser if there is evidence of assault
- He or she can be prosecuted
- Statutory services must also provide support regardless of gender
Accepting that you are being abused is an important step.
The next step is to break your silence and feelings of being alone by contacting an appropriate organisation or speaking to someone you trust.
You are not alone.
Respect Men’s Advice Line:
Telephone: 0808 801 0327
Telephone, text relay and email support for men
Confidential helpline for men experiencing domestic abuse, offering emotional and practical support
Phone lines open Monday - Friday 9am - 5pm
Telephone: 0300 561 0077
24 hour telephone support, male advice line every Wednesday 10am - 12pm
Men are welcome to use the 24 hour advice line outside of these allocated hours
Confidential helpline for male victims of domestic abuse
Telephone: 01823 334244
Phone lines available Monday - Friday 10am - 4pm